I understand your concept for Aramel! It's a very good idea!

*smiles* not all women can be shaved.

I can be very interesting for him to have a gay experience. But I'm not sure. I have read a book (Darkover series) where a man is bi-sexual. The woman is very strong and she accepts him as he is. Her love is very strong, she knows the other man is not taking away something from her but he makes the man she loves very happy. When I first read the book I was all OMG! what a shit. The second time was a bit different but I can still not understand her. But I'm not such a strong woman. To fight for the man you love with another man is wasted time because the woman has NO chance to win. As long as it is an experience to bring the story and the person forward is a very good idea.
It's your choice!
I will read it for sure and I will enjoy everything!