A wise man once said, "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans."

Sorry to hear about all the crap you're going through re the accident. Relieved to hear no one was seriously hurt, but that idiotic driver should own up to what he did. Good luck dealing with all the necessary beauracratic crap. Hopefully all will go smoothly...

As for your daughter? Pregnancies tend to happen that way. Sure as hell did in our situation. Would she be able to temporarily stay with you after the baby is born? Or maybe you stay with her for a few days? Motherhood is so overwhelming at first (as I'm sure you know).